“Baby killer,” Texas Republican Rep. Randy Neugebauer yelled at fellow Congressman Bart Stupak. Whispering to President Obama near an open mic, Vice President Joe Biden is overheard dropping the “F-bomb.” Both are just the latest examples of the Casual Living Ubertrend — a trend that fuels a zero-decorum lifestyle.
The lack of etiquette infects not only Washington. Over on the Fox Business channel, Neil Cavuto hosts a four-member panel — a cacophony of rising voices, struggling to be heard over the competitive din. Cavuto himself has the less than appealing habit of never letting anyone finish a point.
The incidences of moral turpitude are not limited to the New World. Over in the Old Country, a fist fight breaks out in an Italian newsroom behind a seemingly clueless anchor:
The list of altercations is endless. Congressman get spat on, town-hall meetings are disrupted by hecklers, babies are routinely left out in 100-plus-degree car heat. The lack of common courtesy and caring is becoming bottomless. And cruelty knows no boundaries.
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is the newest frontier in the war on good taste. In Missouri, Lori Drew was acquitted in a cyberbullying case in which she used a fake MySpace account to harass a teenage girl, Megan Meier, who ended up committing suicide.
And if you believe that a law passed after Megan Meier’s death would slow down the trend, think again. Elizabeth Thrasher, 40, became the first person charged under the new law. Trasher’s indiscretion: She allegedly posted a picture with contact information of her ex’s girlfriend’s daughter on Craigslist under “casual encounters.”
And in the latest case of the unbearable frightness of being, nine teenagers have been charged over the death of a 15-year-old Irish migrant who killed herself after months of merciless and sometimes violent bullying by fellow students at a Massachusetts school.
Soccer Hooligans
Sport games have been long been identified with fiery passions, but when it spills off the field into the stands, it gains an entirely new dimension. U.K. football fans are routinely banned from other countries because the hooliganism of British fans’ has become legend.
In the Netherlands, “wild plassen,” public urination, has caused a national outcry. The phenomenon has forced the Dutch government to place unique “receptacle” urinoirs at all public events to reduce the incidence of that unsavory habit.
One Dutch company, Urilift International, has developed a creative solution to the phenomenon, which allows municipal governments to rapidly deploy and neatly store away its space-age urinoirs.

Apeldoorn, Netherlands-based Urilift has created a urinoir station that rises from the pavement to handle convenience-seeking Dutch louts. After the festivities have subsided, Urilift urinoirs can conveniently be lowered out of sight.
Bad Is the New Good
Over at TechCrunch, Michael Arrington writes that “Reputation Is Dead: It’s Time To Overlook Our Indiscretions.” Arrington may have a point. Before Tiger Woods and Michael Phelps, there was supermodel Kate Moss.
On Sept. 15, 2005, The Daily Mirror ran front-page photographs that, it claimed, showed Kate Moss snorting cocaine. She was quickly disavowed by clients who had made her one of the richest women in the fashion industry, with estimated annual earnings of $9 million.
But even as London police were questioning Ms. Moss, clients such as Virgin Mobile, Dior, Roberto Cavalli and CK Jeans were busily booking her. “It shows how relevant she is,” Jenn Ramey, Ms. Moss’s American agent, was quoted as saying in a New York Times article, “Being Bad: The Career Move,” just days after Nikon introduced a new campaign for its Coolpix S6 digital camera featuring Moss.

It used to be that asocial behavior could ruin your professional career. But if Kate Moss is any indication, that rule no longer applies. Moss was hired by Nikon to promote its stylish Coolpix S6 digital camera right after the “cocaine” incident. Her wealth is estimated at £45 million, according to the London Evening Standard.
Society has shed its stiff upper lip and is quickly moving to a culture that’s far more relaxed, but perhaps also much more unruly as courtesy and manners become a thing of the past. And thanks to the wonders of YouTube, voyeurs from all over the world can now participate in these sordid spectacles, like this cheeseburger order gone awry:
Road Rage and Rudeness
An average of at least 1,500 men, women, and children are injured or killed each year in the U.S. as a result of “aggressive driving.” While that’s a drop in the bucket compared to the 33,963 traffic fatalities in 2009, 35% of Americans surveyed by Public Agenda said they were “aggressive drivers.” The fact that the term “road rage” was only coined in 1988 is telling.
Escalating lack of manners are such an ignominious part of U.S. fabric that eight out of 10 Americans surveyed say rudeness and disrespect are serious problems, according to Public Agenda.
On the Internet, a lack of forum etiquette has resulted in numerous “flaming wars” and a growing incidence of “trolling”, an online form of anti-social behavior designed to enrage discussion forum members.
Breeding a society that’s less polite and much more aggressive in attitude, the Casual Living Ubertrend is also to blame for a number of “attack videos” that have received much media coverage.
One such YouTube video shows a young girl from San Mateo, Calif. being viciously attacked by a school mate, leading the despondent victim to abandon high school due to fear and depression.

The Internet has also lowered the barrier for asocial engagement by providing an easy way of supplying no-holds-barred commentary.
The Casual Living Ubertrend is fueled, in part, by the rapid growth of the world’s urban populations, which has turned popular cities into faceless masses of people. Anonymity encourages offensive behavior because there’s no need to act responsible.
Offensive habits in turn become more popular as mass behavior provides an unwritten license for committing acts of wanton disregard. The recent “flash mob” scenes in Philadelphia are a perfect example of how an innocent act, apparently begun by a dance crew, can rapidly escalate into a riot.
Casual Friday
But the Casual Living Ubertrend has not only reshaped consumer behavior, it’s also left an indelible mark on the world of fashion. Only 12% of U.S. companies adhere to a traditional dress code, according to a survey conducted by Rowenta in 2003.
“Business casual” has had a significant impact on the apparel business. In 2009, total U.S. apparel sales fell 5.2% to $188.5 billion, largely due to the economy. Jeans sales, on the other hand, grew 3.5%, while sales of men t-shirts was up 11%.
The trend towards casual has been a boon to denim sales, a $55 billion market worldwide that is projected to jump to $65 billion by 2015, according to Global Industry Analytics.
The preference for casual wear has led to less formal entertaining, as evidenced by flat formal china sales in the past 10 years in the U.S.
Could there be a return to more pomp and circumstance? Not likely, according to Rowenta. Only 12% thought we would go back to more formal business casual wear. Expect to see more Hawaiian shirts and other casual wear in the workplace. Sometimes Casual Living does have its advantages.
Casual Living Ubertrend Gallery
News stories run rampant with videotaped reports of school fights and other aggressions. Fights are now recorded for posterity on countless of video sites, where digital rubberneckers can participate in alarming numbers.

The media have also been affected by the Casual Living Ubertrend. In 2009, Southland became the first mainstream network TV show featuring a bleeped dialog. Even popular talk shows, like Jay Leno and David Letterman, now regularly feature deleted expletives.

During a Soul2Soul 2007 tour stop at the Cajundome in Lafayette, La. country star Faith Hill had to reprimand an overzealous fan who had grabbed husband Tim McGraw’s crotch, an incident captured on mobile phone video, naturally. The video has been removed by TMZ.






















